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2012年10月28日 星期日

Entertain Yourself With Online Gambling - Just For Fun


You have a steady job and enjoy playing your weekly netball game and being creative with crafts. Sometimes you feel like doing something completely different to relax. Sometimes you entertain yourself with online gambling, just for fun.

So what do you know about online gambling?

Firstly, you know that gambling is addictive and that you can lose a lot of money. You have had a flutter with friends at the horse races and your last years Christmas work social was at your local casino consisting of a yummy meal and a chance to "try your luck" at a game or two afterwards. So you know how easy it can be to keep spending in the hope of a win. Online gambling is no exception.

You feel that you are disciplined enough to set aside a certain amount of money for this entertainment. That is, you set aside what money you are prepared to lose and call your online gambling session fun. When this money is used up then you will stop gambling. However if you happen to make any winnings along the way then great. Call this a bonus which you can use for something special like a new pair of shoes or savings towards a holiday away somewhere. This 'bonus' is put aside and you continue gambling until your initial entertainment money is used up. Or you may choose to stop after a win. Stopping can be done at any stage up to your gambling limit.

You know:

- not to treat gambling as a way to earn money.

- not to set goals of how much you should win in each session.

- not to set your entertainment limits on an amount you can not afford.

- that there is no guarantee of a win - whether it is online or offline.

- that you are risking something to gain something.

You became aware of all of this with your offline experience at the horse races and casino. You saw first hand some people getting completely out of control. You see, when you win it is thrilling and exciting. Studies have found that gambling makes the brain react like it does with food and drugs. These people you saw, were occasionally winning and when this happened, they kept on gambling in the hope of winning more. But the odds were against them. They lost big time.

When you tried online gambling, you found that there were advantages over offline gambling.

You discovered that:

- you could try the games for free. Each online website has rules and regulations to follow.

- you get bonuses, as there is competition between websites to entice you to join.

- you do not have to travel as it can be done in your own home as long as you have a computer, active internet connection and credit or debit card.

- you can gamble in your own time for five minutes or two hours or anytime you want.

So you thought this was great for the times when you wanted to relax, wind down and just be by yourself.

If you are keen for some lone down time, why don't you entertain yourself with online gambling, just for fun.




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2012年10月27日 星期六

Gambling Addiction? - How to Stop Running From Yourself and Face Your Gambling Addiction!


Gambling addiction has become an epidemic, particularly with the widespread accessibility of online gambling sites. Research reveals that 15 million adults in America are at risk of problem gambling and that there are approximately 5.5 million people who are pathological or problem gamblers.

If you are one of the statistics, are you ready to do something to change your life around?

Nobody can do it for you. Only YOU can decide to change your life because only YOU have chosen, consciously or by default, to take this slippery path downhill into gambling addiction. That is not to say you are to blame. You made the choice in order to comfort yourself in some way.

It is human nature to seek out the quickest route to pleasure in life and try to avoid pain and that is understandable but, when pleasure comes at the expense of relinquishing family, friends, health, home and the precious things in life that are irreplaceable, then that may be a very high price to pay.

You can make the choice now to take a different path.

Firstly, the most important thing is to discover the underlying reasons for your gambling addiction. That is going to require willingness and courage on your part because you will need to really face yourself.

You may have been avoiding this for a long time. The song "I've been to paradise" by Nancy Wilson, comes to mind as very relevant to many of us who run from ourselves into outer distractions and chase promises of fulfilment and short-lived pleasure, all the while missing the important things in life and especially, any deep connection with our inner being that would give our lives real meaning. We avoid ourselves at all costs, frightened that we may find emptiness inside. Why do we fear emptiness when it can be our friend? Sitting with emptiness is less painful than gambling your whole life away. I've been to emptiness and meaninglessness many times and have returned to tell the tale and so can you.

If you feel that you do not have the courage then that is not true. If you can gamble, you have lots of courage and it just needs to be re-directed. You just need to be willing to take the first step.

Secondly, you may find that you have been using your gambling addiction to cover up uncomfortable symptoms such as loneliness, boredom, anxiety or depression. Everyone goes through some of these states at some point in their lives. You are not alone here, nor are you mentally ill; you are merely human like the rest of us.

Maybe you are running away from crises or difficulties that you feel you do not know how to deal with; there is no shame in that. We are not born with the skills to deal with everything in our lives; we merely learn them as we go along.

Thirdly, once you are aware of the underlying need that your gambling addiction is trying to fill, then you can find a different way to meet this need.

You have the power within yourself to turn your gambling addiction around if you want to. Are you ready to do so now?




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2012年8月7日 星期二

Questions to Ask Yourself to Help Identify If You Have a Gambling Problem


Gambling takes many different forms. Even bingo and the lottery can be termed as gambling. And although these two forms are not usually a problem, other forms of gambling can become very addictive. And once you become addicted to gambling, your entire life can be effected for a long time. In can put you deep in debt as well as affect your relationship with family and friends.

Many times when someone gets addicted to gambling, it changes his entire ability to deal with all situations. The gambler can become irrational, argumentative and unreasonable. To relieve this situation, some sort of treatment is generally necessary. But before any of this can happen, the gambler must first acknowledge that there is a problem.

Gamblers Anonymous has set down some guidelines to help identify someone with a gambling problem.

Has your attendance at school or work suffered?

If you are late or missing time at school or work, it could be an indication of a problem.


Is your home life unhappy? If you gamble, is it effecting your life at home?
Has your reputation changed? Constant gambling can affect the way people look at you and think of you.
Winning or Losing - Do you feel guilty? No matter if you win or lose, you can feel guilty from gambling.
Is gambling a source of necessary income? Do you gamble to pay off other bills? If so, it can lead to addiction.
Is gambling monopolizing your personality? Are some of your good qualities like ambition and efficiency being affected because of your gambling?
Do you have the desire to win back what you have lost? The feeling of getting back what you have lost can be a sign of gambling addiction.
Does winning create greed? If you win, do you want to gamble again to make even more?
Do you know when to stop? Do you keep gambling until you are totally out of money or do you set a limit. If you keep going, you could have a problem.
Do you borrow from friends so that you can gamble? If you keep losing, do you borrow money from friends and family so that you can return to the table and gamble some more?
Are you selling personal property to get gambling money? If you are selling items to finance your gambling, then chances are, you have a problem.
Are you isolating your gambling money? If you hesitate or refuse to use your gambling money for anything but gambling, this could be a very bad sign.
Is your family secondary to your gambling? If you are finding that both you and your family are becoming secondary thoughts to gambling, then you are probably too far involved in this practice.
Do you play past the point where you planned on stopping? Having difficulty stopping at any given time is an indication of a problem.
Do you use gambling as an escape? Is gambling your way of escaping from problems? If so, it may be time to stop.
Have you considered criminal activity as a means of financing gambling? If you have, then gambling has become a problem.
Are you having trouble sleeping? This can be caused by an increased level of gambling.
Do outside influences force you to gamble? Things happening in your life can drive you to gamble in order to forget them.
Do you celebrate events by gambling? Do you use gambling as a means of celebration?
Have you thought of suicide due to your gambling? The contemplation of suicide is an indication of a serious problem.
If you are a gambler with a problem, then you probably answered "yes" to seven of these points. Here are some suggestions to help you get out of that gambling rut.


Only take a specified amount of money with you to gamble
Leave credit cards and the atm card at home.
Have a strict time limit to how long you will play
Keep in mind that losing is more likely than winning
Do not use any winnings to gamble even more.
If you run out of money, go home - don't keep gambling.
Take someone with you who will be a sort of designated driver to help you quit when you should.




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